There is no happiness without patience…Happiness is not like a microwave oven. Nor like the Internet. Happiness does not run on the instant gratification system. Happiness takes patience. Finding happiness is like finding yourself. You don’t find happiness, you make happiness. You choose happiness. Self-actualization is a process of discovering who you are, who you want to be and paving the way to happiness by doing what brings YOU the most meaning and contentment to your life over the long run.